I'm happy, I have an incredible life...I just want to share it with someone. — Confidential

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The 4M Club is a high-end, boutique agency working solely with authentic millionaire bachelors (looking for their elusive Miss Right.) We make no apologies representing this niche group for 12-years and counting. We learned early on their busy and discreet lifestyle often interferes with finding a soul mate; yet they desire (and deserve) a good woman as anybody else.

The 4M Club was the FIRST millionaire matchmaking service in the Pacific Northwest (launched 12-years ago in Seattle) and immediately expanded nationwide. The founder is a native of downtown Chicago and has lived in Los Angeles, with a great understanding of her sophisticated and cosmopolitan clientele.

Anyone can state they are a "millionaire matchmaker," but in reality there are only a handful of us in the United States who have been operating exclusively with millionaires (the 4M Club included) from the get-go.

4M's premier clientele receive highly personalized service, including relationship mentoring and date coaching throughout membership. We constantly search, advertise and market discreetly for our clients, in search of the perfect soul mate.

While social media is great for many things, we find it inappropriate for millionaire matchmaking. The cream of the crop tracks us down through our innovative marketing strategies (or we find you), not the masses. So no tweets, postings or "invites" accepted by the 4M Club ever; as always, confidentiality shall remain king, which our millionaires appreciate.

Exhaustively screened introductions (matches) are made privately to our sincere and relationship-committed clients. Either you approve, or we move on to the next match. We are modern-day matchmakers with a corporate background, not traditional yentas.

Our focus is working with handpicked, eligible bachelors from Seattle to Chicago to NYC (or from any major global city.) Matching within the United States is our primary focus. We have beautiful, eligible ladies from major cities, pre-screened and waiting in our portfolio. Our clients understand and embrace the philosophy, "love has no geographical boundaries."

In other words, our established bachelors are looking for the real deal, no matter where she may live. They yearn for a life-long soul mate to love and cherish and a lady who offers the same in return.


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Women understand if they marry or get engaged, they eventually migrate to the man's city, not the other way around (in that regard, we're "old-fashioned.") Or maybe we're just realistic?

Our exceptional clients won't settle for second best or a woman only looking for a lavish lifestyle. We (and they) know the difference.

Single women over the age of 33 who remain flexible where they live (and are open to relocation if a relationship turns serious) can discreetly apply anytime on our site. There is no fee ever. For every 20 women who inquire, we may accept a few (or none.)

Yes, we are that picky, because our clients demand a "certain type" of woman (healthy, intelligent, beautiful, financially sound, educated, classy, happy, adventurous, athletic, warm, genuine and loyal.)

Men we privately represent (most frequently age 45 to 65), pay a negotiated search & consulting fee, depending on various factors. They work one-on-one with our president and founder, Christine Stelmack. Qualified bachelors are encouraged to contact Chris by phone (most preferable), email or form on men's page.

Our fees are competitive with other long-standing, reputable millionaire matchmakers (again, there are just a few outstanding agencies in the United States who have worked ONLY with the 1% crowd.)

Our specially chosen clientele (including women) assure you one-on-one, confidential and unparalleled service always. We go the extra mile to find the love-of-your-life. We guarantee (literally) the best, quality matches.



The 4M Club is not an online dating site - we offer exclusive, professional matchmaking services only (similar to executive recruiting.)